Chances are, at some stage of our lives, we are going to find ourselves responsible for an elderly relative who needs caring for. This loved one may have nurtured us when we were younger, or been there for us throughout our lives, and it’s natural to wish to return that caring by providing them a loving home.
Unfortunately, no matter how good our intentions, the burden of constant care can become oppressive and cause marriage rifts, depression and stress. Many also suffer from guilt either from the inability to take the elderly relative into their home or from the failure to cope, if they do.
The good news is that you are not alone.
There are a myriad of support networks available to assist in making an informed decision about your loved ones care. These professionals can work in collaboration with you, to find workable care solutions which allow the elderly to lead full, rich, productive lives.
Many people have antiquated views on what aged care facilities provide.
Quality aged care centres can be more like spas and have facilities such as hairdressers and shops, allowing residents a safe normality.
Bringing back the magic
One of the most marvellous recent revolutions in aged care, is the shift towards Creative Ageing. The recognition of the needs of elderly people to feel a sense of accomplishment and purpose, is transforming lives, creating self respect and allowing for creative expression.
Depending on their interests and abilities, Creative Aging activities include gardening, singing, arts and crafts, music and even things such as hen keeping.
The hen keeping rewards have proven to be huge, with:
- Increased well-being
- Decreased depression
- Grandchildren and great grandchildren becoming more involved
- Schools, community groups and kindergartens joining in the fun
- Reduction in loneliness
Sharing the caring
If you or someone you are caring for, is still independent but nonetheless requiring a level of care, consideration should be given to Respite Care. This conveniently provides the means for carers to have a break or alternatively, for elderly people to live in the comfort of their own home but to go into care for short periods when needed.
Another advantage Respite Care affords, is the ability to use it when recovering from an illness or hospital stay. The service is flexible – available for a couple of hours, to a few weeks or longer, if required.
Community Care
Another excellent program which enables the elderly to remain in their homes is Community Care. These care plans can be tailored to suit everyone’s unique needs and wishes.
Along with visits from qualified staff to assist with meal preparation and domestic cleaning, they can also provide transport to regular social outings and activities. This service can be a boon to relatives who may not have the time or means to provide this level of support, themselves.
Residential Care
If you feel your loved one may have reached the point of requiring, full time, monitored Residential Care, give My Aged Care a call and speak to a member about organising an assessment.
The forms for Application for Care, along with the Aged Care Assessment Team’s request forms, can be accessed through this link. For domestic or commercial shifting hire mapyourmove.
If you are a carer, juggling your own life but concerned for the well being of an elderly relative living on their own, take heart, you are not alone. There are many support strategies in place to provide you with the assistance you need to protect, love and provide for your aging loved ones. We all get old – it’s comforting to know that there are wonderful opportunities available to lead a productive, dignified life, well into old age.
